DDLG Relationships

What is DDLG? The DD stands for Daddy Dom and LG is Little Girl. A Daddy Dom is a subset of a regular Dom and is viewed as being in more of a caregiver role for the “little” (little girl). While a DDLG relationship is generally talked about where the little is the submissive of the two, it is possible to have submissive Daddies that give into their littles. Also, DDLG is not exclusive to Daddies and little girls. It can be reversed with Mommies and little boys.

"Daddy Doms are amazing because while they can be stern with their littles, Daddies are softer, warm, protective, loving, and can be very playful with their sweet little."


I’m not saying all Doms are hardcore and sten, but Daddy Doms have reputations for giving off that paternal. A DDLG relationship is more than a little calling a guy, “Daddy” in bed, even if that is hot. :-p littles are able to depend wholeheartedly on their Daddies and know that he’ll protect them. Honestly, I don’t know why any woman wouldn’t want a DDLG relationship. When you finally meet a guy that is the real deal, it’s amazing to have a great man to call, “Daddy.”


When I first realized I was a little (more like a medium), I was crazy excited because it explained sooo much to me. As I thought about old relationships I had been in, alot of things clicked.  I’m a very playful girl, but I never really liked men my age. I’ve always been attracted to older men (which isn’t a requirement for DDLG ageplay).

"I find that older men usually fall into that protective mode with younger women anyway. I also find it sooo much more fun to play with an older guy because I love the way they drop their guard and get silly with me. "

When it comes to DDLG, I don’t regress into diapers or anything. My age would fall into the teens. I’ve been known to roll my eyes, let out big sighs, and hide under a menu when faced with tough questions from a Daddy. I’ve definitely done more then my fair share of pouting and broding. Sometimes my Daddies will give me affection when I act like that or they get a little stern, lol. Either way, I love it. What I’m ultimately trying to touch on is how wonderful DDLG relationships are and as I started to learn more about them, I noticed that many pictures and porn clips don’t really have interracial DDLG relationships. I didn’t think much of it until I found a forum where a young woman asked if interracial DDLG relationships weren’t a thing. I can completely understand where she was coming from. Alot of the DDLG content doesn’t show supporting proof that interracial DDLG relationships are prevalent and that can make a girl a little nervous.  Personally, I believe interracial DDLG relationships are definitely happening.

 

I live in the South and in the area I’m in, the type of men I enjoy dating usually end up being older white men because the characteristics I find important to me show up in that form and I rolled with it. Sometimes, I feel like people create their own barriers and block themselves from getting what they want. While my friends do not know I’m into DDLG, alot of my girlfriends (who are mainly black) date older white guys and it’s not an issue. I would love to incorporate DDLG into my life fully, which is why I’m sooo picky with the men I date.

"While I never directly say, “I want a DDLG relationship.” or “Will you be my Daddy?”  I think a lot of men have elements of a Daddy Dom within them because I find that Daddies are pretty Alpha and most men love being men."

They enjoy taking care of their families, protecting, and providing. What man doesn’t feel good when his beautiful partner looks at him with admiration because her “Daddy” took care of her. If you’re having trouble with men and dating, I would think that would translate into your BDSM relationships. Finding a regular relationship is tough, but trying to meet a proper Dom is harder because alot of men pose as Doms and they lack real experience and communication skills.

Like any relationship, you have to be cautious and take your time. Screen that person thoroughly and listen to your intuition. Once you make that connection with the right Daddy Dom, it’s soooo worth it.


So, are interracial DDLG relationships a thing? I believe so and I think it’s only hard if you make it so. I’ve had Daddies in real life and being a phone heaux (phone sex operator) has definitely introduced me to more Daddies that love their sweet chocolate princess with no qualms.

    

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